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Conscious Evolution Personal Development Relationships

How do you let go of someone you love?

The time comes in every relationship where you start to question whether there is potential for continued love and growth, or whether it is time to separate and expand your wings. Sometimes the answer is obvious. If there is hurt, suffering, cruelty, abuse, or more subtly if there is disrespect, lack of love and nurturance, […]

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What is the most helpful thing to say or do for someone who is dying?

This is a topic many of you struggle with. Finding out that someone you love is dying soon or slowly in pain, terrifies you all. It breaks your heart open and you feel temporarily lost as the normal layers of protection over the heart are dislodged. You feel vulnerable, exposed, scared, and lost. Many want […]

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Conscious Evolution Personal Development Relationships

How to know when to stay or go?

There are times in all relationships when intimacy declines and you start to wonder whether the relationship is a healthy one or not. One of you may have diverted your energies elsewhere, making you unavailable fully to your partner. Some people connect in at work, sport, a hobby or focus more on the children leaving […]

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Healing from child abuse Personal Development Self help techniques

How to relax, have fun and play?

When your early life was full of fear and tension, you brace yourself for the next fight, the next bout of anger that gets taken out on you or your family. You live frozen in fear ready to detach, fight, flee or hide. You live braced for anger and you lose your ability to relax […]

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How do I stop reacting from the past?

To stop reacting from the past you need to let go of old hurts and realise that the actions today are not related to the past. The person with you today is not the person from the past. They do not think, react or explode like the person in the past. Any similarities are there […]

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Conscious Evolution Family Constellations Healing from child abuse Personal Development

What is the source of evil actions?

There is no evil force as such. It is just misguided souls that have connected in with the darker urges, the primal, survival urges. There is darker thought and that attracts darker entities that also cling to the primal-ness of man and its animal urges. These darker thoughts, urges, and tendencies lead to great anger, […]

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Conscious Evolution Personal Development

How do you go with the flow?

Going with the flow refers to letting life lead you forth. You let go of expectations, goals, focused achieving and you surrender to life and follow its cues and directions for you. It is letting your heart lead instead of your mind. Some people baulk at this concept. They fear it means sitting around, wasting […]

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Personal Development Relationships

A neuroscience love song

Super cute! A lovely sounding song that explains what happens chemically in our brain when forming and maintaining a relationship. https://www.facebook.com/nprskunkbear/videos/314218658983274/

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Conscious Evolution Personal Development

Life from your soul’s perspective.

I love it when I come across someone else talking the same language as me about life. In this interview with Gary Zukav Oprah explores what our soul is and why life occurs as it does, how we are here to learn and evolve out of fear and its various conditionings into responding to all […]

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Healing from child abuse Personal Development Self help techniques

How do we stop fighting against our lives?

You fight because you resist surrendering your defences and feeling your pain. It feels too big, overwhelming, obliterating. You sense the depths of emotional pain inside and you fight against facing it all. Yet at the same time you search for solutions so you will feel better. You want it to be gentle, sanitised, easy, […]